What is the secret of strong couples?

What is the secret of strong couples?

In a society where there are a large number of separations and divorces, it is necessary to ask: what is the secret of strong couples? Is there a magic recipe? Is there something that all couples share? Let's see it below!

Some relationships seem to have such solid foundations that nothing can stop them. In this article, we will discover what lies behind these types of relationships and what is the "cement" that unites them.
1. Beliefs about good and bad
The cement that unites the two members of a stable couple often consists of beliefs about what is good and what is bad. In each society, there is a certain model of torque, a sort of standard.
When we establish a relationship, it exists in the form of a series of agreements we do not speak about
Some are faithful, do not look at others and do not flirt with them

Except in the case of open relationships, in monogamous couples, this is taken for granted Beliefs about what is good and bad have a significant weight on the members of a relationship and may be one of the reasons they hold.

2. Time investment in a relationship
This is another essential factor, which it would be a pity to lose after a few years. This often happens in longer relationships.
The members of the couple consider that they have devoted precious time to the other person and, for this reason, the break-up is not part of their projects.

3. Relational model of parents
The third element that binds solid relationships is based on the type of relationship our parents had.
If their relationship was strong or based on any of the above, it is quite possible that our relationships are similar to those of our parents.

In the same way, all the beliefs that exist in the relations of the couples of the different generations of the family will also have an influence.
The moment when cement stops fulfilling its function in couples
What happens in such a case? What mistakes can be made?

Some of them may be:

We want to be with other people, we are not made to maintain a monogamous relationship, but instead of accepting it, talking about it or leaving our partner, we prefer to be unfaithful. Regardless of the damage we can cause to each other and the damage we can cause ourselves
Lack of communication in the couple, not communicating our wishes and desires, the relationship itself. If we do, it is superficial and banal. Without deepening
Beliefs that affect our relationship and that can prevent the building of a healthy and free relationship
We always emphasize the importance of communication in the couple. Because assuming what the couple should be can lead to misunderstandings or to the fact that one of the members, instead of being honest, chooses to commit an infidelity.

Unfortunately, in our society, infidelity seems quite "normalized". In fact, this is one of the reasons, and often the only reason why couples separate.

Maybe there was a crazy couple pattern on the part of the parents. And that this one repeats itself because that is what is known. Remember, children follow the pattern of their parents. They imitate a lot of their behavior.

What beliefs have surrounded your relationships? Have you followed the relational model of your parents or are you the opposite extreme? Do you believe in love forever?