Reinforcement of weak personality, treatment of weak personality

Character definition

There are many definitions that have been developed to explain the concept of personality, and it is difficult to agree on the existence of a definition that fully defines us, as the psychologist Westen defined it as follows: (patterns constants of thoughts, feelings and behaviors that are expressed in different circumstances), as the American scientist Sullivan defined them as follows: (Methods: the characteristic by which the individual can deal with others), according to the psychologist Aizen, is: (the relatively constant and constant organization of a person's morals, temperament, mind and body, and this organization determines his unique adaptation to his environment).

Personality is the set of character, traits, tendencies, desires, personal perceptions and various ideas that exist within the individual on a continuous basis, so that they distinguish him from others and affect his interaction with the environment around him, including the situations or people he includes, whether that influence is in his understanding and comprehension, or in his behavior and style, or his feelings and emotions, or his outward appearance.

weak character

 Strengthen the weak character

 The treatment of personality weakness begins with knowing the cause that caused it. When the cause is gone, the problem is solved. Therefore, weak personality resulting from pathological reasons is treated by doctors and psychiatrists. Behavioral therapy is the most effective. treatment of personality weakness resulting from other appearance-related reasons, such as a bad environment.

There are many ways and means by which it is possible to treat and strengthen the weak personality, including:

. Encourage the individual from childhood to read as it broadens his consciousness and the circle of his knowledge and experience to help him build a balanced and healthy personality.

. Teach the individual from childhood the notion of taking responsibility and give him experiences that allow him to apply what he has learned, such as asking him to take care of his little brother for example.

. Encourage the individual from childhood to mingle with others and to deal with them, for example by involving him in social activities, which helps to overcome his fears.

. Encourage the child to develop their talents and skills to be competent, which builds their self-confidence.

. Respect the position and value of the child by taking their opinion on many simple things, like choosing their clothes or the activities they want to do, and listening to them and their stories, which gives them confidence.

. Act positively with others and banish negative thoughts, as if he was always saying in his head: I will succeed, I am capable, I am loved.

. Stay away from negative environments and negative and frustrating friends, and try to accompany positive, balanced and optimistic people.

. Orientation towards various activities such as sports, literary reading and poetry writing, as they are beneficial for mental and psychological health, as well as for refining and enriching the personality of the individual.

. Pay attention to emotion and deliberation in making decisions.

. Be careful to organize the thoughts of the mind and show them in an acceptable and beautiful way to others.

. Learn the methods of speaking up and objecting when necessary and when the individual is sure that their information is correct.

. Self-acceptance and self-respect, striving to gain self-confidence and looking at yourself positively by attracting positive thoughts and perceptions of successful life.

The causes of personality weakness

 There are many reasons behind personality weakness including:

Pathological causes: People suffering from depression and schizophrenia, for example, are among those who show symptoms of personality weakness, where the schizophrenic patient suffers from a coldness towards others, which leads him not to dialogue and to sympathize with them, and this is one of the symptoms of personality weakness, and the depressive patient feels that he is of no use in his surroundings, He suffers from a lack of desire and activity and ignores others, and he lacks self-confidence, and this is also a symptom of personal weakness, and many people may lose self-confidence as a result of illnesses or injuries in their outward appearance, such as deformity and loss of a limb due to an accident that happened with them, and they may lose it as a result due to aesthetic reasons, such as skin color, height, weight and others , which leads to pers low tones.

The presence of the individual in a negative environment, whether at home, work, school or others.

The subjection of the individual to his negative thoughts which play a part in programming his subconscious in a negative way, and his submission to negative suggestions and repeating them within him, such as: I am a failure, I cannot no, I can't do that, ..etc.

The sensitivity of the individual and his quick reaction to the words and criticisms of others.

The negative image that the individual has of himself and his lack of respect and confidence in his abilities.

Lack of individual confidence in himself and his ideas and their value.

personality and social environment

The characteristics of an individual's personality begin to form and emerge from their first months in this life, where their characteristics and signs are formed in their family and surroundings, and the external social and genetic influences of their early months also begin to overlap to affect the construction and formation of one's personality.

 and there are many factors that contribute to the construction and development of an individual's personality, It differs from society to society. nature of the parents' profession, the degree of their connection with religion, the social class to which they belong, and even the choice of their child's name affect the future personality of the child.

There are other factors, such as the difference in nationality or religion of the parents, and the place where the child lives, whether in his country of origin or in another country with a different culture, or in a society in war or in peace, and even these simple societal factors such as how to treat the child and distinguish whether he is male or female, or whether his disposition in his family is first or last, all these factors and others play an important role in forming the personality of the child, some of them make him strong to give the child self-confidence, and some of them make him a person with a weak personality.