13 ways to become impressive
One of the most obvious definitions of personal attractiveness are the visible and hidden characteristics that attract others without you being aware of it, without planning or prerequisite, who are influenced by this personality and serve as a leader.
The most important element in the beauty of the mind is gravity, here are the most important elements of the attractive personality:
1 - not to divulge particular problems:
Sadness, pain and distress are elements already present in man and can not be eliminated, but they must be hidden or reduced as much as possible so that others do not get bored because they are not obliged to to participate in our sorrows.
2. Understand others:
It is advisable to try to understand the problems of others and to be a person not only proud of big events, but also of the little ones, while respecting the sorrows of others and showing the pleasure of their joys.
3 - listening science:
Listening to others attracts you, because someone who masters the art of listening to others' conversations is a love for them and should be left to others to speak and participate in later.
4 - Do not exaggerate others:
There are many who believe in their decision to be nothing less than others, so their superiority can affect their relationship with you, which is a way of talking and inappropriate behavior, while humility always wins. love of others.
5. Show admiration in a timely manner:
Every human being enjoys praise, but not hypocrisy. Man needs courtesy and admiration to regain self-confidence, but it is best to show this admiration in a locality with a sincere word, in a timely and appropriate manner.
6. Reasonable optimism:
The optimist is always loved. He shows the world with reality. But this optimism must be reasonable. Do not touch the imagination. The optimist does not recognize despair, but always renews the hope of solving his problems and within the limits of existing possibilities if you have been obscured by the clouds. .. Close the vision of your eyelids behind the stars of the clouds and the earth around you if you are covered with snow ... Close your eyelids see under the snow lawns.
So the Messenger of Islam, Muhammad ibn Abdullah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, "Do you think you will find him?" And the greatest of words !! It's a word that sums up the results of optimism.
7. Accept the remarks of others:
It is good to receive criticism and criticism from others who display blatant arrogance, if they are published by sincere people who want nothing more than appropriate help. That of controlling the mind and controlling the emotions.
8 - Think of a funny psychic:
When thinking about water, it's best to be calm and relaxed, so that you can make a smooth and uncomplicated decision: when your psychology is dark, do not try to solve anything in order to avoid fear and anxiety.
9 - Think and behave well in psychology:
Even if you are attractive, you must always act with a spirit of kindness, because if you have all the qualities of the past, you will lose an important element of gravity without the quality of goodness.
10. franchise:
The franchise is a fundamental attribute of gravity, it is essential to think with oneself and optimism with others .. The person with two faces or in love with oneself and hostile to others Will you be your opinion .. Seductive ... ..?!
11. Show interest to others:
You must be aware of this human fact that your interest in others and demonstrate it will be the best way to gain respect for others, their love and love for you, while your interest in yourself and not being interested in yourself. others will lead you to an army of enemies who will look at you with trifles! I do not think you want it ...?!
(New York Telephone Partner) conducted an analytical study to discover the word used in telephone conversations more than others. Have you deducted?
Yes it is the speaker's consciousness (I). I used this word (3990) once in (500) phone conversation! If you have doubts about this, answer the following question: When you contemplate the image of a group of people, you are among them, to whom do you first send your consideration ?!
So why are people interested in you until you care about them first?
And how do you try to get people's attention on you, without looking at them first?
People like people who are interested in them psychological
emotionally and morally. Try this description and you'll see how people are attracted to you, caring for your partner and family, losing colleagues and friends in your work environment and managing your neighbors.
12- Be quiet Make miracles:
The calm characteristic of success, the calm expression of a strong and coherent personality, the calm title of a conscious and civilized human being! On the contrary, this person who revolts for the most insignificant reasons and irritates the absurd
Things, he expresses a weak person, a weak mind and a weak will.
Psychologists say that a person who is angry for the most trivial reasons is a human being
Just like the weak tree affected by the simplest gift of the wind, but the strong tree of the strong man, its origin is fixed and its branch in the sky stretches roots in the depths of the earth, where it becomes more stable each time the wind blows.
It is the quiet person who can win the hearts of others and admire them. The truth is that violence breeds violence, anger generates anger, calm calms anger and water extinguishes fire!
Be calm in your dealings with others, use your pack with the aggressors, speak in terms of sweetness and friendship, this is the fastest way to win the others and admire them!
13 - take care of your mind and your appearance
Wherever you are thrown into the universe, nature has touched a beautiful aesthetic state, in the sky and its suns, moons and stars, galaxies and ... in the earth and its seas, rivers, mountains, valleys , beings and ...
It is therefore obvious that divine effects on the universe and life: art, taste and beauty as well as arrangement, coordination and order.
We are therefore obliged
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