How to deal with a nervous person

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How to deal with a nervous person
Dealing with a nervous person
By virtue of the fact that man is a social being who needs others and seeks to communicate with them, he deals with a number of different personalities in his daily life, but some characters may leave a bad impression that would turn a good day into bad moments. One of these characters is the nervous person, The person who quickly provokes from the simplest positions and begins to react negatively to people around him, and may include his reaction to screaming loudly with redness of the face and may reach the scorn and ridicule and shed what sometimes finds in front of him without taking into account the feelings or attitudes of others, how to behave if faced This character?
* You have to be sure that he is not against you but he feels the pressure from his work or his life or position exposed to him, and the accumulation of feeling of pressure to the moment you were discussing or you ask him advice or opinion, which led to the explosion at that moment, Or emotional, or personal, or lack of achievement and all this led to the sense of the lack of tricks and showed his nerve on you, that is, as they say, "You were in the wrong place at the wrong time."

* Do not drift towards the opposite response, especially the response by shouting or insulting, this will not get you anywhere and will not bring you to calm down or find a solution to the problem. Silence is described as the best weapon in this case. It is not a weakness. Try to think rationally and respond intelligently to negative emotions, so that the nervous person is thinking and using a low tone of voice and changing his style of discussion.

* Do not attack or defend yourself, express your understanding of the situation, express your sympathy with him, help with the use of a moderate tone of voice and understanding, taking into account the commitment to neutrality in dealing, try not to leave the place and do not turn your back and deal with the situation with understanding.
* You can also suggest methods and ways to modify his style in dealing with what causes him pressure and anger to better deal with the problem. With those around him and with better attitudes.

By doing this, you can deal with the nervous person in the daily situations that are facing you with a good psychology that affects those around you for the better and without spoiling your day.
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