How to increase your self-confidence: 3 powerful keys
A key to self-confidence to increase self-confidence: "An important key to success is self-confidence. An important key to self-confidence is preparation. "
Wondering how to increase your self-confidence?
The first key is preparation.
This is what prompted tennis champion Arthur Ashe to say:
"An important key to success is self-confidence. An important key to self-confidence is preparation. "
Tell me, do you have your driver's license?
Yes ?
Did you rush to take the exam or did you first get trained?
You were first pushed, did not you?
Well, during the exam, you must have noticed something:
didn't the best prepared candidates (you may have been one) show greater self-confidence?
Well, yes.
Want another example?
Take the one of your own life.
Identify something in which you have a very strong self-confidence.
You will find that you have seriously prepared for it in the past, and this for years sometimes!
An important key to self-confidence is preparation.
Therefore, no matter what you want to succeed in your life, start by preparing yourself to succeed in this thing.
Develop the personality, the qualities, the necessary skills, and gather the necessary resources.
You will then greatly increase your self-confidence, your confidence in your ability to succeed at this thing.
If you have not already done so, take a whole week (if necessary) to get in touch with your inner being and understand what your true dreams are.
Then, transform them into objectives to be reached on specific dates.
Now take out your notebook with its pen and take stock of everything you will need to achieve these goals:
professional qualifications, material resources, necessary character traits, etc.
Once you have made such a list, work to prepare yourself accordingly and ...
Take care of getting everything you need.
Once this is done, you will feel an increase in your self-confidence, your strong belief in your ability to succeed in the area where you are prepared.
2) How to increase your self-confidence, 2nd key: the accumulation of victories
Once you are properly prepared, the second key to increasing self-confidence is to accumulate several success stories.
Indeed, if you are properly prepared, the risk of failing is almost zero and the chances of success are almost total.
Take the example of a student who is properly prepared for an exam.
There is little chance that he will fail and very likely to succeed, will not he ?!
Take the example of an athlete who is well prepared to run a marathon.
There is little risk that he will not complete it and a very good chance that he will complete it, isn’t it ?!
Once you’re done getting ready to do something, chances are it’s going to be win after win.
This does not mean that you will succeed every time.
But you will definitely get more success than failure
and your success above your failures will increase your self-confidence.
Take the example of an athlete who has a marathon to run and who is well prepared.
There is little chance he will not finish it and very likely he will finish it.
But does that mean he will finish first at this marathon?
Does this mean that he will be the first to each of the marathons he will do?
No !
It will happen to occupy other places than the first.
But because this sportsman will have accumulated several experiences of success in the field of the marathon, his self-confidence in this field will increase considerably!
Another example ?
Take someone who has properly trained in seduction techniques.
Will he be successful with women?
Yes, for sure!
But will all the women agree to go out with him?
No, for sure, too, is not it?
.. and yet, it will record much more success than chess
... and that will increase his confidence in him tenfold.
(Well, I write "him" here, but we could as well say "she" huh, you understood me ... do not see sexism here Smile with tongue out).
A third example:
that of a man (or a woman) who took the time to learn how to cook properly:
Will he prepare delicious dishes? Yes, of course!
But does that mean that he will be 100% successful in all of his dishes?
Yes too: you can never succeed.
It will sometimes fail or be less efficient than usual!
However, roughly speaking, his many successes will increase his self-confidence, his confidence in his talents as a cordon bleu.
Therefore, if you want to sit back and develop your self-confidence in one area, have fun building success on success in that area.
Get started today.
Take any area that matters to you and in which you have prepared in the past.
Then, act and accumulate victory after victory.
With each of your victories, you will feel your self-confidence in this area take a leap forward!
That's how you can increase your self-confidence with this 2nd key.
Now discover the 3rd key.
3) How to increase your self-confidence, 3rd key: use the failure
The preparation, as we have already said, will greatly increase your success rate and therefore your confidence in you.
But it will not dispense you from failing from time to time.
When failure comes, use it as a stepping stone to greater self-confidence.
How, are you asking?
Learning from this failure:
Ask yourself why you failed this time, find what you missed.
Then work to acquire (more preparation) this thing.
You will maximize your chances of accumulating even more success!
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